I always believed in the institution of marriage (not that I am married…hush..I am too young to be married 🙂 ). But I also believe that marriage takes away a lot from you in terms of independence, impulsive actions, carefree attitude, responsibility..etc etc!! Its not an easy thing, and I am sure every single married man would agree. (I say man…females are sensitive & versatile so they are able to manage it. I had to say few good things about them, or else I would be proclaimed as gender biased :/)
One must be thinking, why suddenly I am blabbering about marriage…not that I have to open an account in one of the super-hit and money –making matrimonial websites, but a bout of heated discussion that erupted between and my friend.
She too believes in the institution of marriage, but she tends to differ on the after-effects of marriage which I mentioned above. According to her there is nothing like sacrificing freedom, independence stuff, it just need some adjustment (my dear friend..thats what is equivalent to sacrificing freedom 🙂 )!!
After several rounds of discussion and ofcourse I winning it, she finally agreed to the fact that a life changing event (read marriage) brings lot of unwanting changes in everything. And do you guyz wanna know my winning ball. I just sent this to her…and then rest is the history!! I won!!
(I love arguments…and I love winning them anyhow..even if marriage is not that bad..i know its not that bad..but I had to make it look like one….just to win!!! And what could have been the better cue to pick from the universal saying..”its man who suffers after marriage”
Anyone to challenge me…yet again..huh!!!
The first mistake the guy did. Or should I say, he was unfortunate to witness this girl in such a situation. 🙂
( I was wondering why the hell she was tied there…this guy should have picked up the hint….find the hint lil later below)
Boy!! He is happy!!! See that smile on his face. why not!! huh!!
This is the best part. Life feels so great at this moment..coz its pre-shaadi moments 🙂 !!
Here he commits the biggest mistake of his life. But not his mistake. He went the best way by picking up the best alternative.
How? Here was the option. There is one saying..(I will use pure hindi here so that the adage doesnt loose its flavor) – “Shaadi ek motichoor ke ladoo jaisa hai, jo khaye woh pachtaye or jo na khaaye woh bhi pachtaaye”.
So this man thought, either way there is no escape, so the best way is to eat and then pachtayo 😀
Not my fault..okay!!!
This was inevitable and I was talking about this aspect only (I stressed this point to my dear friend….seeee…..dekho…!!!! 🙂 )
(….Wait for the next one..the reality hits him and he takes the best step in his life 😉 )
DO I NEED TO SAY MORE!!!! 🙂 😀
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